m2f to ftm question on ------ity

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Hi, i didnt know where to post this but i have a question being a minister and helping others out i been curious why is it the m2fs want straight males? compared to say them wanting a bisexual or a lesbian woman? i noticed most mtfs want a straight male only, however i noticed most female to males want transmen or males. that leaves the m2f who are lesbian very rare to find someone or a ftm thats into a straight woman? the question is why is it the mtf woman who are lesbian is rare compare to m2f that are straight? also my question is when it comes to m2f straights whats the ratio for them finding a guy or husband? or do they mostly grow old alone? now what is the ratio for female to males being with another female to malle? the ratio for male to female lesbians? do they find many woman? then there is the female to males that are straight? whats the ratio there? ratio as in does many of them have partners or do they grow old together? i am wondering the question on it. i dont understand why the male to female lesbias are rare and the female to male straights are rare. your thoughts or ideas or insights into the subject?

Sincerely

~Reverend Aeris Sky Ritalee

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`m2fs are we already talking like the girls who already got everything done or anyone? i myself love dating str8 men i just this year dated my first gay guy and i have to say it was kinda scary. plz no one take offence to that its just i know how a str8 man thinks and not growing up around any gay ppl i didnt know how to act or anything like that. the bfs i had said they were str8 but when they met me they didnt care that i was born a boy they saw past that. even tho they said that it took a while for us to have sex, we did things its just took a while for us to do any penetrating....i hope this helped a little

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`I mean pre or post in both male to female and female to male.

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`Rita Its the way you are thinking! .
Being transexual if you are MTF your mind thinks as any other female would , therefore most are attracted to men and FTM are attracted to females and that is just being straight.

Here in the UK we have a gender recognition system where you are given permission to change the --- at birth changed to the --- you are living as now , my birth certificate states --- "female" even though i have not had my op yet and still have male genitals , and if i wished i could die as a female with male genitals which means i can legaly marry a man (a real marriage).

You are realy talking about others personal preferences on a ------ partner and sadly there are a lot of very confused people out there and no disrespect to you but if you think live and work ect as a female then you will attract men! and going back to the confused people most males who are attracted to MTF transexuals are gay but in denial and i know that to be fact as the interest in me by any male admirer will be lost as soon as a have my op and i have been told that by admirers in the past so they are only interested in my male genitals=gay and thats sickens me as i am the same person inside.

It is perfectly natural for a woman to be attracted to a man and perfectly natural for a man to be attracted to a woman unless of course you are gay and being gay means being attracted to a member of the same sex! and that means both living life as the same ---. Its a matter of ------ preference simple as.
Julia.

[edgegrain]

`Hi Rita. From one minister to another, I think your premise is flawed. Whenever we use "most" to describe categories like MtF or FtM we are probably wrong. If there is one accurate statement like that it might be that "Most" transsexuals are invisible to "most" of society. (I know one person who will just want to argue with everything I say, so this is really just one minister to another.)
There aren't any accurate statistics on how many of us find life partners and how many "grow old alone," as you write. You won't find ratios that have any meaning, but there will always be people willing to use their single example as a general truth as if it applies to everyone.

As I just wrote on another post, I am MtF and have a tendency to be attracted to FtM folks, but also cisgender males and females. I can imagine falling for another MtF, but I haven't yet met such a woman. So I won't even pretend that my experience is normal or typical. It's just mine.

[leedsman89]

`gender and ------ orientation are two different things you cant tar everyone with the same brush, we are as much individuals as the next person so dont assume that because i'm ftm that i only like men because you'd be wrong. i am looking for a straight possibly bisexual women, but the fact of the matter is that regardless of wether or not i was transgendered i would still like women. so please the next time you want to ask a question like that, think about it first.